I rarely go out to breakfast with my friends . . . but on such an occasion last month, my friends & I (who are ALL legitimate housewives -- or homemakers, as I prefer to be called) were asked to vacate our booth at Pacific Whey Cafe, so the "Real Housewives of Orange County" could use it to tape a segment for their show; my first thought was, "Am I not real?" But we accepted his offer of free food & headed over to another, apparently less prestigious table by the window.
REAL housewives . . . are they kidding? I suppose if you've ever happened upon this show, you'll recognize them from the back, getting ready to sit down in OUR booth, while their cameramen schlepped in their gear -- thanks for taking the pic, Carolyn, I know that was SUPER embarrassing to be seen taking a photograph of such nonsense!
If those women are what the rest of the country thinks a 'housewife' in Orange County looks (or acts) like, I'm embarrassed. They were so . . . artificial . . . even monster-like to me, with faces coated in make-up & streeeeetched.
Are they, as Webster defines: a married woman who's main occupation is caring for her family, managing household affairs, and doing housework? Uh, don't think so...
I think the reason this was so irritating to me is that I CHERISH my role as a married woman who is faithful to my husband, and who's main occupation is caring for my family, teaching my children & managing our household affairs. It's sacred to me. (ok - I left out the housework part on purpose . . . but even THAT is a small price to pay for the privilege.) And I LOVE the beauty of the area of world in which we live.
I don't struggle with inadequacy with regards to my role as 'just a wife & mom.' I know that there is eternal influence and power in motherhood. I know that the greatest work I will EVER do will be accomplished within the walls of my home. That doesn't mean that I don't get discouraged -- I DO -- or want to give up -- I DO, on occasion -- but I know that what I am trying to do is important and worthwhile. And I am really sad for those women who don't 'get it', and spend their time as wives & mothers chasing after happiness where it doesn't exist . . . and then televising it as though it's normal. I hope it's not normal.
OK, rant over. Whew -- I feel better now!